Abortion, Depression and the Impact on Later Children

— As a new study finds brain changes in children whose mothers were depressed, we examine the research on abortion’s impact on subsequent children.

mom and boyRecently, researchers at the University of Montreal found that children whose mothers were depressed had changes in their brains. From the article at MedicalXpress.com:

Researchers think that brains are sensitive to the quality of child care, according to a study that was directed by Dr. Sonia Lupien and her colleagues from the University of Montreal published today in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. The scientists worked with ten year old children whose mothers exhibited symptoms of depression throughout their lives, and discovered that the children’s amygdala, a part of the brain linked to emotional responses, was enlarged. …

“Having enlarged amygdala could be protective and increase the probability of survival,” Lupien said. The amygdala may be protective through a mechanism that produces stress hormones known as glucocorticoids. The researchers noted that the glucocorticoids levels of the children of depressed mothers who participated in this study increased significantly when they were presented with unfamiliar situations, indicating increased reactivity to stress in those children. Adults who grew up in similar circumstances as these children show higher levels of glucocorticoids and a greater glucocorticoid reaction when participating in laboratory stress tests. “What would be the long term consequences of this increased reactivity to stress is unknown at this point.”

Enlarged amygdala have also been found in adopted children who were initially raised in orphanages, but not in children who were adopted early in life and by more affluent families, the authors said. They noted that “this strongly suggests that the brain may be highly responsive to the environment early in life.”

Studies Link Abortion to Depression in Women

While the study did not look at abortion, studies have found that women who have abortions are at higher risk for depression compared to women who continue the pregnancy — even when the pregnancy is unplanned. A British Medical Journal study found that compared to women who continued a first, unintended pregnancy, women who had a significantly higher risk of clinical depression as measured an average of eight years later.

In a New Zealand study headed by a pro-choice researcher, women who had abortions subsequently experienced higher rates of depression, substance abuse, anxiety disorders, and suicidal behavior than women who had not had abortions, even after controlling for pre-existing conditions. Approximately 42 percent of women with a history of abortion had experienced major depression in the last four years (nearly double the rate of women who had not been pregnant and 35 percent higher than those who carried to term).

And an analysis of a federally funded longitudinal study of American women revealed that, compared to women who gave birth, women who aborted were 65 percent more likely to be at risk of long-term clinical depression after controlling for age, race, education, marital status, history of divorce, income, and prior psychiatric state.[1]

Coping With Unwanted or Emotionally Distressing Abortions
Can Impact Parenting

Research on abortion’s impact on parenting and on subsequent children does exist. For example, researchers using data for 4,844 children, collected through the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth, found that children whose mothers had abortions  had less supportive home environments (among 1 to 4 year olds) and more behavioral problems (among 5 to 9 year olds) than children of women without a history of abortion. The results held true even after controlling for maternal age, education, family income, the number of children in the home and maternal depression.[2]

The paper was co-written by Elliot Institute director Dr. David Reardon and published in The Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry. The authors wrote that although the results of the study were probably unprecedented, “they were not all that surprising when considered in light of previous research linking unresolved grief associated with other forms of perinatal loss, such as miscarriage and stillbirth, to compromised parenting.”

Lead author Dr. Priscilla Coleman of Bowling Green State University said that many women undergo abortions as the result of adverse circumstances or pressure from others, making the experience difficult to cope with if the woman was emotionally attached to the fetus or desired to carry the pregnancy to term.

“An abortion could become psychologically similar to other forms of pregnancy loss in some women,” she said.

Indeed, one survey found that 64 percent of American respondents who underwent abortions reported being pressured by others to do so, and a survey of women in post-abortion counseling groups found that more than 80 percent said they would have carried to term under better circumstances or with more support from those around them.

Ways Abortion May Impact Mother-Child Relationships

Coleman also authored a review of studies examining various types of prenatal loss and the effects on subsequent parenting. In the review, she concluded that abortion may be “particularly damaging to the parenting process.”[3]

The article, published in Current Women’s Health Reviews, looked at already published studies on miscarriage, induced abortion and adoption. It focused on psychological reactions to these various types of loss and discussed how they might affect a mother’s relationship with children born after the pregnancy loss.

The paper described a number of ways that a previous abortion can effect a woman’s relationship with her living children:

  • Increased depression and anxiety. Abortion has been linked to higher rates of maternal depression and anxiety before and after birth, which may effect the woman’s relationship with her children. In addition, depression is a common predictor for child abuse.
  • Sleep disorders and disturbances. Women who have had an abortion are more likely to experience sleep disorders compared to women who carry to term, and one survey found that many women attributed the sleep disorders to a past abortion. These sleep disturbances “could render the high energy demands of parenting more complicated.”
  • Substance abuse. Studies have found that women who had an abortion were more likely to engage in substance abuse, and also more likely to smoke or use drugs or alcohol while pregnant. Mothers who abuse drugs or alcohol are more likely to “engage in authoritarian and punitive parenting practices,” and parental substance abuse increases the risk that the children will suffer abuse or neglect.
  • Child abuse. Abortion has been associated with lower emotional support for one’s children and with a higher risk of child abuse and neglect.[1]

Abortion has also been linked in numerous studies to problems such as higher rates of suicide and various mental health disorders among women. While the review noted that not every woman may experience psychological problems after abortion that will carry over into their personal relationships, “some women will have carryover effects into the parenting realm.”

“The best evidence regarding negative effects of abortion indicates that 20-30 percent will experience serious psychological problems,” Coleman wrote. “With 1.3 million U.S. abortions performed annually, a minimum of 130,000 new cases of abortion-related mental health problems appear each year.”

“A Profound Source of Suffering”

It is now known that women usually begin feeling maternal attachment in the early stages of pregnancy. Coleman noted that despite the increased responsibilities and stress involved in raising children, “numerous studies have documented positive psychological characteristics associated with motherhood including increases in life satisfaction, self-esteem, empathy, restraint, flexibility and resourcefulness in coping, and assertiveness.” Losing a child before or at birth, for any reason, however, “can be a profound source of suffering.”

While all forms of pregnancy loss can cause emotional distress that can impact future parenting, the available research indicates that emotional responses after induced abortion are more likely to go unresolved and to persist for a longer time period.

While “society understands that women who miscarry or relinquish a child through adoption may experience sadness and grief; however, grief after abortion … is not because abortion is not acknowledged by our culture as a human death experience,” and help to deal with the experience is usually not offered.

Further, many people see abortion as something “wanted” by the mother and don’t understand why a woman would experience distress afterward. Coleman pointed out, however, that having an abortion is “sometimes quite inconsistent with the woman’s true desires,” and many women, especially those who feel conflicted or didn’t want the abortion, do feel emotional distress afterwards.

“In many cases, women may suppress thoughts and emotions related to an abortion, because they have not been able to process and or/openly express negative emotions,” Coleman wrote, adding that the lack of acknowledgement and support after abortion gives the “covert message that others would rather not hear what we have to say, and this makes it difficult to even identify our reactions to our losses.”

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Learn more: For more information on the psychological impact of abortion, download and share our Psychological Risks Fact Sheet.

Find help: For information and resources to help if you or someone you know is pregnant or struggling after abortion, download and share our Help & Healing Booklet.

Citations

1. More information and citations to these studies is available in the Recent Research booklet or in the Thomas W. Strahan Memorial Library at www.AbortionRisks.org.

2. PK Coleman, DC Reardon, JR Cougle, “The quality of caregiving environment and child development outcomes associated with maternal history of abortion using the NLSY data,” Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 43(6):743-757, 2002.

3. PK Coleman, “The Psychological Pain of Perinatal Loss and Subsequent Parenting Risks: Could Induced Abortion Be More Problematic Than Other Forms of Loss,” Current Women’s Health Issues 5: 88-99, 2009.

 

11 thoughts on “Abortion, Depression and the Impact on Later Children

  1. Whew, my mother never had an abortion and suffered from all of these maladies – terribly. Never would admit she needed to seek treatment, either, not that there was anything available back then but ‘here’s some valium.’ Died one of the unhappiest, miserable people I’ve ever known.We children tried so hard to fix it, not understanding that we couldn’t. What I’d like to know is how to take seriously treatment for women who’ve never had abortions who have chronic, clinical depression. I doubt we’ll find out anytime soon.

  2. I had two abortion with in a three year and i wanted to know how do you move past it when you have other childern take care of I dont know how to move past it and how do you get back to being a good mother to the kids that you gave birth to I loss my drive to do alot of thing in life for me and my children.

    1. Hi Tenisha,

      I’m so sorry for what you went through. Have you contacted a counselor or support group to talk about your experience? They should be able to help you work through this so that can you start to move past it. There are other women out there who have been through this too and want to help, or you might want to talk with a counselor. You can find information on our healing page at https://afterabortion.org/?page_id=3718. The resources offered there are free and confidential. I hope this helps; please know that we will be praying for you.

  3. I had an abortion a little more than a month ago and, although my life situation hasn’t changed, I want another baby. I still don’t have enough money to even support myself. My boyfriend still so doesn’t have a lot of money. I still don’t have a place of my own, or any way of raising a baby. I still haven’t begun living my own life yet. All of the millions of other reasons and problems are still there. But none of that matters anymore. I want my baby back, and since I can’t get my baby back I want another one. I want to feel life in me again and hold the child in my arms, and have my little one play with all of the babies of all of my friends that are now pregnant too. I had good reasons to not be able to have a child yet, but it doesn’t matter anymore. My brain tells me I need to get my life together first before getting pregnant again, but the rest of me is willing to put up with all of the trials and problems as long as I have my baby. It’s very contradicting, and very difficult. I thought I was pregnant again yesterday and was so disappointed when the results came back negative. But I guess it’s for the best. I’ll continue working hard to better my life and when God decides to give me another child, I’ll take very good care of it and love it like I’ve never loved anyone before, and I’ll try my hardest to be the very best mother. A little more than a month ago I was devastated that I was pregnant, and very devastated that I had to get an abortion, but felt relief that my life would get back to “normal”. Now I’m devastated that I’m not having a baby. Abortion is a lot harder then people explain it. I don’t know if I’ll be a bad mother because of this, I just know I’ll love and appreciate my future children as much as possible after this experience, and I’ll be sure to try to have the very best ready for them when they come. I owe it to my aborted baby, to not let his/her death be in vain. I’ll work hard to make sure my life is together for my future kids.

    1. Dear Dana,

      Please contact a post-abortion healing group to get help dealing with your loss right away. You will be a better mother if you deal with your loss first.

      You are not alone. Many women rush into a replacement pregnancy. Some succeed in carrying it to term. Others, facing the same pressures to abort the second time (perhaps even more pressure), end up giving in and having another abortion and hate themselves even more.

      I am very sorry for your loss. I pray you will be blessed with many children in the future. But please don’t rush into getting pregnant again thinking that doing so will replace the baby you lost. Your second baby can’t fix the hurt and loss you are experiencing. Your second baby deserves to be loved for him or herself . . . which I know you will do . . . but that shouldn’t get mixed up with an expectation that your second baby is “supposed to” fill the void left by the loss of your first baby.

      Do you understand what I’m trying to say? I don’t want to discourage you from having another child…but you should do so for the right reasons, not placing expectations on your child to fix the hole in your heart because of the prior abortion. Get some counseling and do your own work to fix that hole. Then you will be more fully able to love your future children for themselves, rather than because of your hope that they will fill this hole in your life.

      I know you can and will be a great mother. But dealing with the abortion first is better than rushing into a replacement pregnancy.

      You are in my prayers. If we can be of any further help, don’t hesitate to contact us again.

  4. I had an abortion a year and half ago and have suffered severe episodes of depression. I was in such a high state of fear I did what I thought would be the best for my boyfriend and I. Unfortunately, I have regretted it since the day I did it. I secretly hope every month that I am pregnant despite my boyfriend wanting a more stable financial situation with my job. He makes good money but thinks I should be making more $$. I’m so alone. I wish I would have never done it!

    1. It is very common for women who are depressed about a past abortion to want to become pregnant with a “replacement baby.” While there is certainly much joy and comfort in having a subsequent baby, the birth of another child will never actually replace the child that was lost. You realize that, of course, already. But on an emotional level, it is so common to feel that having a baby will fill the hole in your heart. In fact, the hole is still there, and sometimes having a subsequent child even makes the absence of the first more keenly felt.

      This is why we always encourage people to find a good post-abortion counseling program as early as possible. Post-abortion healing is not a one time event. It is a process, often with great strides, but also with slow and steady, ongoing growth and increasing self-awareness. If you can deal at least some of the major issues surrounding your abortion last year, this will prepare you to be a better mother and to bond with future children in a way that does not project needs or fears surrounding your abortion loss on to them. Working through the healing process may also help you to better understand and express your needs to your partner, regarding your relationship, your desire for children, and the balance of financial concerns and having children and having a committed relationship.

      You our in our prayers. If you have not already read our tips on finding a good post-abortion counseling program, please read them here: https://afterabortion.org/help-healing/

  5. My situation is similar to Sue’s. If anything, I’m overprotective of my only daughter. Especially as she now aproaches her teens, I am very anxious over her future. I don’t want her to have the same life and emotional pain that I have had. I do agree that depression has an impact on parenting as I have battled with it on and off over the years. It zaps my energy and motivation and I don’t have that extra strength that I would like to give to my beautiful girl.

  6. Well, most of this certainly rang true for me. The difference being that I became fearful of harm coming to my daughter to an extreme degree. I am sure she could now tell you how she saw things in me she didn’t understand until after she learned of the abortion I had prior to becoming pregnant with her. I did not neglect her; on the contrary, I “parented” her to the point of suffocation in some aspects.

    1. Hi there

      I tried to abort until I was 7 months and I failed, I drank all sorts of things until I gave up, I dont have a good relationship with my son he is 9 years now.

      My most worry now is he is slow at school very slow he is not doing well. He easily forget, he doenst have a good memory, now am think maybe its all the sort of things that i was drinking maybe damaged his brain

      Please help

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